Tuesday, February 25, 2014

Write and Save a Life!

In my last post I mentioned about a baby's life I saved when I was a journalist. I want to explain the story because hopefully, if someone reads my blog and are interested in writing/journalism/reporting or just contributing a bunch of articles to social media websites, I hope this would give them some inspiration in some way.

It's not to boast and not make me a superior species of the normal journalistic, ballistic human race where sensationalism sells newspapers which overrules truth. However, I just want to say, what you write can mean saving a life, the difference between life and death and hope for a better tomorrow for someone else.

So this was the story I published back in May 2011. I was also undergoing a turbulent time in my relationship back then but the story really made me realise how much I was needed!

I interviewed this doctor who even though he was the Sri Lankan President's skin specialist, he was qualilfied in curing children with disabilities. But most Sri Lankans never knew the latter just the former.

Probably a week after the story appeared I got a call from a very good-accented English lady by the name of Mrs.Saldin asking for the doctor's number. I gave all the details I knew including the address of his clinic and what times he was in. She was happy and I never thought about it.

After about 6 months, I went back to this same doctor hoping to ask for more stories because I ran out of ideas for the health column and he and I got on well so I paid him a visit.
After I interviewed him, he told me about this lady from Badulla.

He said that she and her husband had trouble conceiving and wanted a baby so badly. They were quite well-to-do and had wealth but God hadn't blessed them with a bundle of joy. So one day, through an arrangement with someone, they went to the Kalubowila hospital in Colombo South and waited outside for 'rejected' babies. Little did they know, when they were 'given' one baby, they didn't know that his mother had rejected him because he had a disability. He had hydrocephalus (result of an imbalance between the formation and drainage of cerebrospinal fluid in the brain). It is commonly called 'Water in the Brain' because it looks as though the baby has water in his head.
Sadly, they didn't know this and when you adopt a child illegally, who can you turn to anyway? Definitely not the police!
When their foster baby was about 2 years old, the condition surfaced.
They were desperate and emotionally upset. The doctors in their area told that their adopted child would not live.

So one fine day, this article appears, and they call me for the doctor's details.
They visit the doctor whom I interviewed and he puts the baby on a course of treatment. There is surgery performed to filter out the fluid. In a few months time, the baby is hale and hearty! They are the best parents ever, in spite of being foster parents, they took in and sought to find any means necessary to save their adopted child!

When I heard this story, I just couldn't believe my ears! I mean, I was just a messenger, just a reporter but I had this one special gift - I could be a messenger and save lives!

For all my time in journalism in Sri Lanka, I never received any awards and since I worked for a government-controlled newspaper, I never thought I'd win anyway! But this was worth more than anything I've achieved in journalism -  before my marriage and baby - or even my life!

So the morale of this post is to inspire people to write!
I was a rather accidental journalist but I knew I wanted to write. I never thought I would get a job at Sri Lanka's most-read weekly newspaper and thought my articles meant nothing being all government-controlled. But this story changed everything. Now when I'm sad or disheartened, I know that there is a baby's life I saved all because of me!

So if you're out there, go and write, get anybody to publish your articles, you never know whose life you will save! Stop thinking you're not good enough or you're not qualified enough or you don't fit the bill. Just take that pen and put it to paper, tap those words from your keyboard and text those words on your iPhone! A small difference means a world of change!



Monday, February 17, 2014

Because I'm Worth It!

For the past one and half years, when I quit my job and that was not just being a journalist but giving up my beloved health column at the Sunday Observer, I thought I'll never be worth the same self I was.
In a nutshell, the column was a secret success and my baby. I would never forget the day a foster parent called me to save their foster son by asking for a telephone number of a disability-specialist doctor I interviewed. Had it not been for my article and the interview their son's life wouldn't have been saved!
That was the former me....the me I missed....!

But how wrong I was!
Not only am I worth so much as a wife but I mean the world to my son. And that's the best job ever, being a mother...! It's the most difficult, most gruelling, most difficult job in the world but it is also the most rewarding, most priceless and most wonderful job I have been so blessed to ever have.
However, I never thought that I would have an impact on people in different ways.
I met Tanya and Claire through Internations (a world-wide expat group). I thought since I'll be in Peru for 4 years, I might as well go ahead and make friends of my own....not just the ones in the diplomatic circles!
Tanya is loads of fun and Claire, I just met her once before but we got on really well. Claire is intelligent, bright and has a sharp mind. I found her so interesting...!
So I just randomly invited them over for tea last Thursday. Claire brought her lovely boyfriend Jorge too!
I never knew that inviting such a random bunch of people, they would get on like a house on fire. Jorge's attempt at English was really commendable.
And here, I was worried there would be some drama....!
I never knew that Claire felt somewhat like I do. Being an alien but still being optimistic to carry on and make an effort to be positive.
She puts her thoughts and experiences the best and you can read her post on my tea party here
Seriously, it made my day and I hope she finds it in her to be positive and think that not all expats are hoity-toity snobbish airheads! I mean there are plenty but it's the good ones, the diamonds in the roughs that make all the difference.
So I'm definitely doing another tea party....especially since they all loved my food!